Having an Affair and Surviving Infidelity
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Can the pain be undone … and your relationship be saved? When people are in their darkest, bleakest moments, all of their hope may sometimes seem lost. Some believe the damage to be irreparable - that the one betrayed can't get their mind past what's been done. Surviving infidelity becomes a continual thought process which erodes confidence deeply to its core. When someone is having an affair on you, it can be so devastating that you may even blame yourself.
But if there's love for your cheating spouse, then there's always the seed of hope. It will never be easy to forget what's happened to you but forgiveness is completely possible. The affair might be the "catalyst" to redefine your marriage. And this trauma can indeed lead to a stronger bond between you.
The most difficult part about surviving infidelity is not getting caught up in finger-pointing and blaming. Instead, the couple really needs to talk things out in a productive, caring manner. Sometimes this is best aided with the help of a counselor or relationship coach. Relationship coaches are skilled at taking situations which appear negative and pulling out the positives which can create new and stronger relationships.
Surviving infidelity doesn't have to go on forever when you actively try to mend the marriage and mend yourself. Instead of just "surviving infidelity" and feeling like a victim, view yourself and your marriage as having the potential for becoming stronger after your mate has had an affair. A little relationship coaching can go a long way toward making this happen for you.
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